<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087065126256133874.post1113845723005388035..comments</id><updated>2008-07-05T16:47:28.196-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on advice for parents: ask, don't tell</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.advice-for-parents.com/feeds/1113845723005388035/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4087065126256133874/1113845723005388035/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.advice-for-parents.com/2008/06/ask-dont-tell.html'/><author><name>karen alonge</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00485124129312512743</uri><email>karen@karenalonge.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087065126256133874.post-7913646750411651991</id><published>2008-07-05T16:47:28.196-06:00</published><updated>2008-07-05T16:47:28.196-06:00</updated><title type='text'>excellent question!  watch for a new blog post on ...</title><summary type='text'>excellent question!  watch for a new blog post on this topic soon.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4087065126256133874/1113845723005388035/comments/default/7913646750411651991'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4087065126256133874/1113845723005388035/comments/default/7913646750411651991'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.advice-for-parents.com/2008/06/ask-dont-tell.html?showComment=1215298048196#c7913646750411651991' title=''/><author><name>karen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00489467075829083708</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.advice-for-parents.com/2008/06/ask-dont-tell.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087065126256133874.post-1113845723005388035' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4087065126256133874/posts/default/1113845723005388035' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087065126256133874.post-5716478801173833445</id><published>2008-07-03T22:06:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2008-07-03T22:06:00.000-06:00</updated><title type='text'>I often ask my children nicely if they will do som...</title><summary type='text'>I often ask my children nicely if they will do some task and they answer just as nicely "no thanks". Like how about you help me set the table for dinner. "no thanks, I'm playing". well - I really could use the help. "I don't really want to right now". what would you do about that?</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4087065126256133874/1113845723005388035/comments/default/5716478801173833445'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4087065126256133874/1113845723005388035/comments/default/5716478801173833445'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.advice-for-parents.com/2008/06/ask-dont-tell.html?showComment=1215144360000#c5716478801173833445' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.advice-for-parents.com/2008/06/ask-dont-tell.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087065126256133874.post-1113845723005388035' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4087065126256133874/posts/default/1113845723005388035' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>